In commemoration of Veteran’s Day 2019, Lt. Col. John Norvell ’66, P’99, P’02 wrote an op-ed that appeared Nov. 10 in the Finger Lakes Times examining the changing attitudes toward veterans and service in the United States.
The article explores the history of public views with regard to American soldiers. Drawing on his experiences in the Vietnam War, Norvell writes of the complexities and tensions surrounding veterans’ return from combat. Particularly, he discusses how the phrase, “thank you for your service” exemplifies the controversy that arose around the reception of veterans after Vietnam.
Norvell served in the U.S. Air Force from 1966-1989, retiring as a Lieutenant Colonel. He also served as assistant professor of history at the Air Force Academy and later as alumni director at HWS until 2002. While a student at Hobart, he was a member of the Druids, Canterbury Club and the Echo and Pine yearbook staff.
Read the full article below:
Thank you for your service.
It’s a comment I hear with some frequency these days. However, when I served from 1966-89, no one ever said it to me. In fact most of us who served in the Vietnam era were never thanked; yet those who served in Desert Storm and in the ongoing Afghan and Iraq theaters most likely were thanked. It’s an odd thing to think about: We all served our nation, many put their lives in danger, yet many were shunned while others were thanked.
If one could pinpoint the phrase’s emergence, it would be in primarily the last 20 years. One factor that changed the attitudes may be Tom Brokaw’s 1998 book, “The Greatest Generation.” It lauded the men and women of the WWII era. These Americans survived the Great Depression, helped win WWII, and built a stronger post-war world. The book seemed to touch a national nerve. It helped revive feelings that were dormant during the post-Vietnam period but had formed the strong support for America’s military in the past. Brokaw, then, tapped into our strong national pride and respect for our citizen soldier.
In our early history, rather than having a professional standing army, which the founders feared, the United States relied upon its citizen soldiers to do their duty when needed. After their time in the service, these men and women returned home, put down their arms, and rejoined their communities as if nothing had happened.
This is the model that worked well until Vietnam. That war tore up the social contract and ripped the country apart. Americans who served were cast as the villains (rather than the politicians who actually ran and micromanaged the war). World War II was considered a “good war,” but Korea and Vietnam were viewed as failures. Desert Storm fulfilled the need for an American victory in combat and helped to shift the national mood toward veterans. In turn Brokaw built on this feeling and helped heal the breach between those who did not serve and those who had by showing that those who served were neighbors, family and friends who did their duty: ordinary Americans who rose to the challenge.
“Thank you for your service.”
It would seem to be a simple thing to say and one that most veterans would welcome. But like many veteran issues, even this phrase can be complicated. There are several veterans Facebook groups and periodically this subject is raised. Some folks feel humbled. Some are embarrassed. Many feel it is awkward to be approached and put on the spot. It’s not that this recognition isn’t appreciated, it is.
Most who served have no regrets; they feel that they did their duty in an honorable manner when so many have not. Most veterans do not see their time in uniform as heroic. Some well-wishers try to engage them in further conversation, which many find difficult. Questions like: where did you serve or did you engage in combat can be problematic and trigger complex memories and reactions. It is hard, for many to discuss their service with people they do not know. They are not close friends. They ask that others please respect that fact.
To engage veterans, then, become involved with groups such as the African American PTSD Association, Wounded Warriors, Honor Flight, VFW, USO, American Legion, American Red Cross, etc. which all need volunteers. A complete listing of opportunities can be found on the VA website (www.va.gov/vso/VSO-Directory.pdf). There are many ways to help.
Also, take some time to learn about our military and what veterans have endured during their service. Some studies state that less than 1 percent of all Americans today have any ties to the military or veterans. Soldiers give up much to serve: enduring isolation, hardships and separation from family, and of course possible death. Most Americans do not know that almost every person who served in Vietnam was exposed to Agent Orange. It is a terrible chemical and resulted in significant health issues for many. Learning about these issues will break down the barriers between those who served and those who did not.
So what should one do when encountering a veteran?
If they self-identify with a hat or patch on a jacket, say, “Thank you for your service.”
No more, no less.